Oh so true. On the MG journey, you have to be the pilot. Even a great doctor may see you every two or three months. He can't possibly keep up with an episodic disease course that may produce dozens of different symptoms, on any given day. Read everything you can. Keep up a dialogue with other sufferers, like you can on this website, Don't be afraid to ask people for their experiences.
And on a related subject, Ocular MG is MG. I think we do people a disservice by treating it as a special condition. It's exactly the same antibody working in exactly the same way. It's just a question of where you experience symptoms, After 5 years of "ocular" only symptoms, you could - like me - have generalized MG symptoms
tomorrow. For that reason, I believe a neurologist, and not an ophthalmologist, is always the specialist of choice.